You’ve tried everything to reconnect...
Does It Feel Like You're The Only One Trying To Fix Things While Your Partner is Happy With Being Strangers Under The Same Roof?
… This is how you protect what you’ve built together using the same proven techniques that saved our marriage
Click The Button Below To Secure Your Free 30-Minute Relationship Revive Session With An Internationally Accredited Expert. This Session Is Completely Free For You & Your Partner. You Have Nothing To Lose, & An Awesome Relationship To Gain
Click The Button Below To Secure Your Free 30-Minute Relationship Revive Session With An Internationally Accredited Expert. This Session Is Completely Free For You & Your Partner. You Have Nothing To Lose & An Awesome Relationship To Gain
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- Pretoria, South Africa
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You're not broken, you're just stuck… We know how it feels, and found a way past it…
Remember when you could actually talk without it turning into the same fight you’ve had 50 times?
When you’d laugh together instead of passing each other in the hallway like roommates?
That’s exactly what happens when life starts pulling you in different directions…
And it’s what happened to us in 2012.
Whether we like it or not, life comes at you fast…
Maybe it was a baby who changed everything. Maybe it was the big move.. Or maybe even the new job that ate up all your energy.
Somewhere between managing school runs and work deadlines, you stopped being lovers and became logistics partners.
Now every conversation either explodes into that same old argument or you both just shut down to avoid it.
You feel like you’re walking on eggshells about tiny things that shouldn’t matter.
And the scariest part? You can’t remember the last time you really laughed together or felt a spark.
You’re not alone in fighting for what you and your partner have built… And the best news is that just by being here, you’ve already taken the first step towards reviving your relationship.
In fact, according to the American Association of Marriage & Family Therapists, about 55% of couples that get professional help report an improvement in their relationships within 6 months.
You’re not alone in fighting for what you and your partner have built… And the best news is that just by being here, you’ve already taken the first step towards reviving your relationship.
In fact, according to the American Association of Marriage & Family Therapists, 55% couples that get professional help report an improvement in their relationships within 6 months.
We believe we can help you and your partner achieve the same.
See, what you need isn’t another book about communication. And it’s not more date nights that feel forced.
You need someone to help you break the cycle of negativity and toxicity, and remember how to actually connect again without making either of you the bad guy.
That’s exactly what Build Awesome Relationships does differently.
Our internationally accredited Relationship Revive Roadmap™ helps committed couples rebuild intimacy and trust without endless therapy sessions that go nowhere.
We give couples a clear, structured roadmap that delivers measurable results from Day 1.
Our method is powered by Imago, one of the world’s leading couples therapy methodologies.
To get you started, we’d like to invite you and your partner to a free 30-minute session (in-person or virtual) with an internationally accredited expert.
Click the button below and you will get:
- Your Personal Game Plan for Love – Together, we’ll map out a strategy with the exact steps to go from where you are now to the relationship you actually want.
- A Safe Space to Finally Say What’s on Your Mind – No interruptions. No taking sides. 100% confidential.
- The Questions No One Else Asks – We give you a safe space to uncover the real reasons you fight, drift apart, or feel “stuck”.
- You’ll Hear Each Other… Maybe for the First Time in Years By Learning New Communication Tools – We’ll reflect back what you’re really saying so your partner actually gets you.
- The Truth Test – Honest feedback that shows exactly where you stand as a couple — and where the cracks are.
- Relationship Rebuilder Framework – Our proven process to rebuild trust, spark connection, and stop the cycle of the same old arguments.
- Your First “Win” Today – At least one practical tip you can use tonight to feel closer instantly.
- We’ll Bust the Myths Holding You Back – The half-truths and bad advice that quietly destroy relationships… and what to do instead.
- You’ll Get To Know Us Personally (and know Why It Works) – You’ll know exactly who you’re dealing with, and why we’ve been able to help couples just like you turn things around.
- A Clear Next Step – We’ll tailor-make the right solution for you, not just hand you a menu.
- A Risk-Free Way to Start – Flexible packages and built-in support so you have the freedom to choose what you can afford.
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If you click the button below and submityour details right now, you’ll also get:
BONUS 1: Partner Influence
Script (Usual Value R500)
A short guide to help get a reluctant partner on board without pressure or blame.
AND BONUS 2: 6 Secrets To Building An Awesome Relationship (Usual Value R997)
Exclusive access to the 6 Secrets To Building An Awesome Relationship Ebook. You get videos, a PDF, and exercises to start rebuilding connection before your first session.
When you and your partner both attend this session and decide to sign up to one of our programs, your first paid hour is completely free (worth R1,000).
(In other words, if you claim this offer right now, you can save up to R2,000 on your recommended pathway.)
My wife Tildie and I started counselling back in 2012 after surviving a similar storm you’re in. Our marriage was heading for the rocks and we had very serious decisions to make…
Our own marriage was crumbling… The spark was gone, the arguments felt endless, and the silence between us was louder than any fight.
We weren’t “bad people”… just two exhausted partners drifting further apart with every passing week. And we almost lost everything.
That’s when we discovered a new way to be and love. It changed our relationship, and it’s the process we will use to guide you…
We don’t just guide you to do it. We do it ourselves every day.
We don’t just teach it. We live it.
And we’d be honoured to help you and your partner do the same.
Simply click the button below, complete the form, and we’ll be in touch to book your free Relationship Revive Session.
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Why You're Not Crazy For Feeling Alone…
Most South African women don’t realise that divorce rates have jumped 17% since 2020, with “communication breakdown” being one of the main reasons.
I’m not giving you that stat to make you feel doom and gloom…
But rather to show you that you’re not alone, and that relationship issues are a lot more common than you think.
That’s why people like Tildie and I do what we do…
In fact, research shows that (American) women initiate over 70% of relationship conversations, date nights, and attempts to reconnect.
We don’t need a study in South Africa to know that this is common in our country as well…
Think about it… You suggest counselling. You buy the books. You keep trying…
Yet you’re also the least likely to feel heard or supported in return.
It’s not that your partner doesn’t care…
Couples slowly drift apart under the weight of work stress, kids, and endless distractions.
You’re both so busy managing life that you’ve stopped managing your connection.
You’ve probably already tried the usual solutions…
Marriage books that he never reads… Therapy sessions that just circle the problem without creating change.
Or maybe even Instagram advice that sounds good but doesn’t work in real life.
Those things fail because they’re missing structure and accountability. They put all the work on you… again.
The truth is, couples need someone who understands both partners, creates safety without blame, and provides a clear roadmap that gets both people engaged.
Using The Power of Imago To Help Reset The BAR in Your Awesome Relationship
It creates connection without confrontation. Progress without pressure. And most importantly? It gets both partners excited about the journey!
We offer two pathways, depending on where your relationship is right now:
The 2-Day “Relationship
Reset” Accelerator
This one is for couples facing a critical “do or die” moment in their relationship.
Our 2-Day Relationship Reset Accelerator is designed to stop the spiral fast. Over two focused days, you’ll rebuild safety, uncover the real reasons you fight, and walk away with practical tools you can use that same night.
We won’t let the shift fade either. As a value add, we’ll give you a post-program review 30 days after your program to help you maintain momentum and avoid regression — The Private “Progress Review & Future Plan” Session (true value R1,000) — completely free.
12-Week “Rebuild & Restore” Program
If you’re ready for steady, sustainable change with proven tools and techniques to help rebuild your awesome relationship, this is your roadmap.
We meet weekly to rebuild trust, communication, and intimacy in deliberate stages by installing one new habit at a time so the relationship gets stronger as life stays busy.
From week one, you’ll use real tools at home, not just in the session, and measure progress against clear milestones.
Between sessions, we nudge momentum with the free Accountability Accelerator weekly checkins (usual value R500) so you keep applying the work.
At day 30 post-program, your free Private Progress Review makes sure the gains hold and the plan evolves with you.
We’re In This Together
(More Value Adds To Help You Rekindle)
To reward your effort, you can save up to R2,000 on your chosen pathway:
- If you can convince your partner to join the initial free Relationship Revive Session, and you proceed with our recommended pathway, we will give you the first session completely free (worth R1,000), OR R1,000 off the accelerator
- PLUS: As a show of good faith in our ability and your willingness to build an awesome relationship, we’ll give you a session completely free (for 12-week rebuild), or R1,000 off the accelerator if you claim this offer within 7 days.
If you’re ready to take the next step towards rebuilding your awesome relationship, click below to secure your free Relationship Revive session while spots are still available this week.
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The Silent Divorce That's Already Happening
You’re still sharing a home, a bed, a life. But when did you become strangers?
The conversations are about kids and schedules.
The evenings are silent, scrolling on your phones.
You lie awake wondering if he’s already emotionally gone or if you’re wasting your best years on something that’s already over.
This quiet drift is the scariest kind… no big fight to point to, just empty space where connection used to be.
Meanwhile, some couples still laugh together after 20 years. Still reach for each other without thinking. Still have that “us against the world” feeling.
You want to feel chosen again every morning… To have natural affection where his hand finds yours during a movie night…
To know your years together are a treasure, not time wasted.
And above all, to feel excited again about your future together, not just surviving each day.
That’s exactly what our 12-week structured process rebuilds.
We don’t just talk about feelings… We give you tools to break the ‘roommate syndrome’.
You’ll get specific exercises that restore natural affection, as well as guided conversations that help you see each other through fresh eyes.
Week by week, you’ll go from avoiding touch to craving closeness, and from wondering if it’s over to knowing you’re just beginning.
The connection you miss isn’t gone… It’s waiting under all that silence.
You’re Not Broken — You’re Just Overwhelmed
Life came at you faster than you expected.
Maybe it was the baby who changed everything overnight.
The big move that shifted your whole world.
The promotion that seemed like a blessing but stole all of your time.
Suddenly you’re both so busy taking care of life that you forgot to take care of each other.
You’re not angry at each other, you’re just tired. And that’s okay.
But sometimes you worry about what the kids are noticing.
The quiet dinners. How you both retreat to different rooms.
You want them to see love, not just two people managing a household.
You probably know couples who somehow stay connected through the chaos, right?
They’re tired too, but they’re tired together.
They find little moments to connect, a real hug in the kitchen, a joke about the madness, or a quick check-in that actually means something.
That’s what you’re craving… To feel like partners in this beautiful, messy life.
To laugh about the chaos instead of drowning in it… To show your kids that love can handle busy seasons and still stay strong.
That’s exactly what our process helps you build.
No judgment about how you got here, and no blame for being overwhelmed… Just gentle guidance back to each other.
With BAR there to help you along the way, you’ll learn to sync up again in this new phase of life.
You’ll find pockets of connection even on the hardest days, and learn how to support each other through the overwhelm instead of getting lost in it.
You haven’t failed… life just got really full. We’ll help you make room for each other again.
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Let's Get It Right This Time
You’ve been through heartbreak before… You know what it costs.
Maybe it was a divorce that changed everything…
Maybe it was watching your parents’ marriage fall apart.
Or maybe this relationship has already been to the edge and back.
Every disagreement now carries extra weight. Is this the beginning of the end… again?
You find yourself holding back, protecting your heart even from the person you love. Because you can’t go through that kind of pain twice.
But here’s what’s different this time, you’re wiser.
You know love alone isn’t enough.
You know the warning signs.
You’re not interested in fairy tales anymore.
You just want something real, something that can weather storms.
You see couples who got it right the second time around.
Those who learned from their past without being haunted by it. That’s what you want, love that’s grown-up, grounded, and built to last.
Whether you’re preparing for marriage and want to start strong, or you’re at a crossroads needing clarity, you deserve to feel confident about your future together.
Our structured process provides you with the tools you wished you had the first time.
We help you spot trouble before it becomes a pattern.
Address fears before they become walls. And build a connection that’s based on skills, not just hope.
On your chosen pathway, you’ll learn to trust again… Not blindly, but wisely.
You’ll learn to love each other fully without losing yourself, and to create something that honours your past wisdom while building a better future.
You’ve learned that waiting for problems is a mistake. This time, you’re doing it right.
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This Feels Like Your Last Chance
It wasn’t one moment that brought you here… it was months or years of slowly drifting apart that suddenly hit a breaking point.
Maybe trust was shattered.
Or someone finally said “I can’t do this anymore” after holding it in for so long.
Or your partner, who’s refused help for years, suddenly agreed to try counselling and you know this window won’t stay open long.
Whatever pushed you to this edge, you both know this is it.
The kids feel it too… They’re quieter at dinner, careful around you both, watching this tension that fills every room.
You hate that they’re learning this version of love.
You’re terrified because it feels like one wrong conversation could end everything.
But you’re also desperate to save what’s left. To somehow find your way back to feeling safe with each other.
What you need is rapid intervention, not months of talking in circles while you drift further apart.
That’s exactly what our programs provide.
Our 2-day accelerator and structured 12-week journeys stabilises things quickly.
We don’t let you float in painful limbo, wondering if it’s over.
We help you see clearly whether trust can be rebuilt, how to protect your kids through this, and what your real options are.
Some couples look back at their worst moment as when everything finally turned around.
When they stopped avoiding the truth and started rebuilding something real.
The door is open right now. Start this journey before it closes!
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Protecting What You've Built Together
You look at your life and see 10, 15, maybe 20 years of memories.
The home you created… The children you’re raising… And the dreams you shared over coffee when everything felt possible.
But right now it feels fragile, like all those years could shatter if you’re not careful.
You lie awake thinking about what divorce would mean for the kids, for your future, and for everything you’ve built.
The idea of starting over at your age feels impossible. But living in this disconnect for another decade feels unbearable too.
Your children are watching and learning what marriage looks like from you.
You want them to see love that lasts, partners who support each other, and a home that feels safe.
Not this careful distance you’re both maintaining.
You know other couples who protected what they built and went through rough patches but came out stronger…
Their kids talk about their parents with pride, and their homes feel like sanctuaries…
They honour their history while building a better future.
That’s what you want to be known for. The couple who fought for each other, not just stayed together.
Our process helps you safeguard everything you’ve created.
Through structured tools and guided connection, you’ll build the stable, loving environment you and your children deserve.
You’ll transform those years of history from weight into strength.
We help you align your actions with your values and honour your promises while addressing your reality.
This is your chance to give your absolute best effort so you never have to wonder “what if?”…
Your relationship is worth protecting, and your family deserves to see you try.
Let’s make sure those years weren’t just time spent, but a foundation built.
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Stuck in the Same Movie with a Bad Ending
You know exactly how this fight will go before it even starts…
He’ll say that thing. You’ll react that way…
He’ll shut down. You’ll give up.
Same script, same ending, every single time. It’s like being trapped in your own movie where everyone ends up unhappy.
You’ve tried to change the script, and you’ve read the relationship books that are gathering dust on your nightstand.
Maybe you’ve even sat through therapy sessions that felt like expensive venting, or had the same “we need to talk” conversation that never actually changes anything.
The exhausting part? You can see the pattern, and you know what’s broken.
But somehow you both keep playing the same roles, saying the same lines, and heading toward the same terrible ending.
Isn’t it time for something… different? Something that actually helps you find your way back to each other?
Our structured process doesn’t just help you understand your patterns, we help you break them…
We give you new ways to approach each other and new ways to respond.
You get concrete tools that interrupt the old script and start writing a better one.
No more vague advice about “communicating better.”… And no more hoping this time will be different.
Just clear, measurable progress that you can actually feel.
You’ve tried talking about change. Now it’s time to actually create it.
Book your free Relationship Revive Session right now and let’s get you started towards that progress.
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Why South African Couples Trust Us to Save Their Relationships
After almost losing our own marriage in 2012, we learned something life-changing…
Saving a relationship isn’t just about communication techniques or therapy sessions.
It’s about becoming self-aware, learning how to create real safety and reconnection by taking responsibility for your own behaviour…. and doing all this together as a couple on a new journey.
That’s why we’ve spent the last 13 years building something different…
We’re not just therapists and coaches with certificates on the wall.
We’re a couple who almost divorced, did the work, and came out much stronger on the other side.
Now we’re internationally certified and licensed as relationship experts backed by Psychology and Communication degrees..
Tildie is a registered psychologist with the Health Profession Council of South Africa (HPCSA) and Board of Healthcare Funders (BHF) — so you can use your medical aid if need be.
Fred is qualified as a Relationship and Life Coach with ILS (accredited with the International Coaching Federation), adding even more tools that can help you.
We’re official members of Imago Africa and Imago Relationships Worldwide, connecting you to a proven method that’s transformed thousands of relationships globally.
Whether you want to save what you’ve built or need clarity to move forward, we understand exactly where you are, because we’ve been there too.
After more than a decade of guiding couples from disconnection to deep love, we’ve learned that the difference between couples who make it and couples who don’t, comes down to one thing:
Intentionality, commitment and staying the course on a journey with someone who has walked your path, saved their own relationship, and know exactly how to guide you.
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Your Free Relationship Revive Session: 30 Minutes That Could Save Your Relationship
This isn’t another awkward therapy consultation where you sit in silence, wondering what to say.
This is different.
In just 30 minutes, you’ll be given the roadmap to a new journey and introduced to a relational space where you will feel heard and validated.
We’ll tell you about the step-by-step process and tailormake it to meet your specific needs.
We will LISTEN with intention to the future YOU want and then show you how the process will help you get there.
Here’s exactly what happens in yourfree 30-minute session:
- You'll get your Personal Game Plan.
- We'll map out the exact steps from where you are now (exhausted, disconnected, going through the motions) to where you want to be (laughing together, affectionate, actually excited to come home, living an awesome adventure).
- We'll create complete safety where you can both say what's really on your mind and in your heart.
- No taking sides. No judgment. Just us who've been where you are, helping you see each other clearly again.
- You'll start to understand why you keep having the same fight. Why Sunday mornings feel so lonely. Why trying harder just makes things worse.
- Plus, we'll assess how your relationship is right now and what path will get you to where you want to be.
- Whether that's our 12-week journey for gradual rebuilding or our 2-day intensive for crisis intervention, you'll know exactly what you need.
You then have the freedom to choose. We offer both virtual and in-person sessions available. Medical aid rates apply.
Safe Space to see if your relationship can get to where you want it – and if both of you are committed to the journey.
When you book today, you also get these exclusive bonuses:
BONUS 1:
Partner Influence Script
If you need help convincing your reluctant partner to join you in this session, we’ll give you a gentle guide to help get them on board. No ultimatums or guilt trips.
… Just the exact words that make him or her see this as something you're doing together, as a couple.
BONUS 2:
6 Secrets To Building An Awesome Relationship Minicourse
Start reconnecting before your session even happens.
This minicourse comes with videos, exercises, and PDFs showing the exact tools that saved our marriage.
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The “Here For You” Promise
We know the hardest part isn’t booking the session, it’s getting your partner to show up.
That’s why we make this promise: If you can convince your partner to join you for the free session, and you both decide to move forward with our recommended program, we’ll give you your first paid session completely free (worth R1,000).
Or if you choose our 2-day accelerator, you get R1,000 off.
This isn’t just about rewarding you… It’s our way of saying “we believe in you both.”
When you show up (with what might be a reluctant partner) it shows courage. When you both commit to the process, that’s another bold step in the right direction. When you complete the process, you both deserve a reward!
During the free session, you will realise this isn’t about blame, it’s about building something better together.
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Here’s What Happens Next:
When you click the button below:
- Step 1: You'll fill out a quick form with your contact details and preferred session time. It takes less than 60 seconds.
- Step 2: You'll immediately receive your Partner Influence Script and access to the 6 Secrets Minicourse so you can start working on connection today.
- Step 3: We’ll call you (or you can call us), and within 24 hours, we'll confirm your session time and let you know if there is anything you need to prepare for the session. This helps you both get the most from your 30 minutes with us.
- Step 4: On the day, you'll meet us (virtually or in-person) for your Relationship Revive Session. No awkward intake forms. No cold clinical feeling. Just a warm conversation.
- Step 5: Before your session ends, you'll have your Personal Game Plan, whether that's our 12-week journey, 2-day intensive, or specific exercises to try first. You'll know exactly what your next step should be.
- Step 6: If you both decide to move forward, we'll apply your "Here For You" guarantee. Your first paid session is free or R1,000 off the intensive. Most couples book their first official session right then, while the momentum is fresh.
And if you accept your recommended program within 7 days of the session, you’ll also enjoy the additional R1,000 off on your program through the In Good Faith Onboarding bonus.
The whole process is designed to feel safe, clear, and pressure-free… Because the last thing you need right now is more stress.
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Testimonials
Bronwyn N.
“It is your beautiful and magical guidance which I have to thank for our wonderful new journey.”
M & L Simakuhle
Your compassion reminds us that true healing doesn't follow calendars; it follows the kindness and patience you show with every step. We are deeply grateful. It is not often that we come across someone compassionate who wants to see us win, but in you we have been blessed with that gift!
Paul T.
“It is radical and offer astonishing gifts not only to couples, but also to the entire human race.”
THIS WEEK’S SPOTS ARE ALMOST GONE
We only have 5 free Relationship Revive Sessions available each week.
That’s just 5 spots for hundreds of couples who are struggling right now.
Our existing clients book their follow-ups immediately, and word-of-mouth referrals claim spots days in advance, which means this week’s availability is disappearing fast.
Don’t let another week of silent dinners and sleeping back to back steal your joy.
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Your chance to feel loved again is one click away (just in case you skipped to the bottom…)
You know that feeling when you first fell in love? When you couldn’t wait to see each other? When everything felt possible?
That couple still exists… They’re just buried under the exhaustion, the routine, the same old patterns that keep repeating.
You’ve been trying so hard… carrying the emotional weight alone…
And watching other couples who seem to have it figured out while you drift further apart…
Now you know the difference… It’s not that they love each other more, it’s that they have the right tools and support to navigate the hard seasons together.
Right now, you can book your free Relationship Revive Session and receive:
- A safe space where you'll both finally feel heard
- Your Personal Game Plan to reconnect
- The Partner Influence Script to help your partner say yes
- Our 6 Secrets Minicourse to start today
- One practical tool you can use tonight
Book today and receive (completely free):
BONUS 1: Partner Influence Script – Usual Value R500
Worried your partner won’t say yes to the consultation? A short guide to help get a reluctant partner on board without pressure or blame.
BONUS 2: 6 Secrets To Building An Awesome Relationship Minicourse - Usual Value R1,500
Exclusive access to the 6 Secrets steps To Building An Awesome Relationship Minicourse. You get videos, a PDF, and exercises to start rebuilding connection before your first session.
When you both move forward together, your first paid session is completely free.
We only have 5 spots available this week, and they fill quickly. Each week you wait is another week and that empty feeling that keeps growing.
Your relationship deserves this chance. You deserve to know if the love you built can be rebuilt even stronger than before.
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Frequently asked questions
What if my partner refuses to come to the session?
We understand — this is one of the biggest challenges. That’s why we created the Partner Influence Script (you get it free when you book your session).
It gives you the exact words to help your partner see this as something you’re doing together. Many reluctant partners change their mind once they understand it’s not about blame but about building something better.
If your partner still won’t come, you can attend the first session alone to get guidance on next steps.
Is this just another type of therapy that goes nowhere?
No. We use the structured Imago method — it’s not passive talking but active skill-building.
You’ll get specific tools, clear exercises, and a roadmap that creates measurable progress.
We’ve been through this ourselves (almost divorced in 2012), so we know the difference between therapy that circles problems and processes that actually solve them.
Can we claim from our medical aid?
Yes. Tildie is registered with the Health Profession Council of South Africa (HPCSA) and Board of Healthcare Funders (BHF), so medical aid rates apply to our sessions. We can provide the necessary documentation for your claims.
What if we do not have medical aid?
If you don’t have a medical aid or prefer not to use it, we charge slightly lower rates than prescribed medical aid rates. Discount is also available if you decide to pay upfront.
How quickly can we get a session?
We release 5 free session spots each week. Early in the week, you might get a session within 1 day. By Thursday, we’re usually booking into the following week. The sooner you book, the sooner we can help.
What's the difference between the 12-week program and 2-day accelerator?
The 12-week journey is for couples who want gradual, steady progress with time to practice between sessions. This option is ideal if you’re drifting apart but not in crisis, or if you would simply like to improve your relationship to an awesome level.
The 2-day accelerator is for urgent situations, such as a major breach of trust, someone threatening to leave, or when you need rapid intervention. We’ll recommend the right one during your free session.
Do we have to be married to work with you?
Not at all. We work with couples at every stage — dating, engaged, living together, married for decades. If you’re committed to improving your relationship, we’re here to help.
What if we're beyond help?
We’ve worked with couples who hadn’t spoken in weeks, slept in separate rooms for months, even had divorce papers drawn up. If you’re both willing to try (even reluctantly) there’s always hope.
The free session will help you understand realistically what’s possible.
Are the sessions awkward or confrontational?
Just the opposite. We create complete emotional safety. No taking sides, no judgment, no forced vulnerability.
We’ve been where you are, so we know how to make it feel like a conversation with friends who understand, not a clinical interrogation, while at the same time providing you with science-backed, professional guidance and working towards real transformation..
What if only one of us wants to work on the relationship?
It’s actually quite normal for one person to reach out first.
Often, once the reluctant partner experiences that first session and feels heard without blame, they become fully engaged. We’re experts at helping skeptical partners feel safe enough to participate.
Can we do sessions virtually?
Yes, we offer both virtual and in-person sessions. Many couples prefer virtual for the convenience and comfort of being in their own space. The effectiveness is the same.
How are you different from other, therapists and coaches?
We’re a couple who saved our own marriage using these exact tools. Our expertise is backed up by university degrees and international certification and accreditation (with regard to professional therapy, facilitation and coaching). We limit ourselves to 5 free sessions per week to maintain quality. And we have a 5-star rating from all our reviews because we genuinely care about your success… it’s personal for us.
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